My husband and I had a conversation the other day and I asked if his mistress knew he loved me. He thought about it and said, “No”. It cut like a knife to hear him say that. Why does it matter to me? For four years, while he was seeing the other woman, he never …
The Broken Pedestal Throughout our marriage, my husband had always placed me on the proverbial pedestal. He loved and worshipped me, and made it very well known to everyone. Heck, even without saying a word, it was apparent that he absolutely adored me, just by the way he would look at me. My mother often …
The Other Woman Maybe “yours” isn’t the right term, but the woman or man that your husband (or wife) had their affair with. I wonder if their personalities are similar, or if only a few are slightly psycho. It is only natural to want to know about the woman who your husband chose to have …
Lies, lies, lies yeah. Remember that song from the 80’s? That song often goes through my head often. My head feels like a jar full of sand, with each grain representing a question. If you are the WS, you will be answering many questions after your affair. There are millions of questions that need answering …
Trusting after an affair is no easy task… My husband was always my rock. We were solid, and I knew that he would protect me no matter what. His love and dedication were FIERCE, and he held my heart close to his. Nobody would ever hurt me, as long as we both were alive. He …
The Affair Discovery {Part 2} The next couple of weeks were full of all types of different emotions. I compare it to a buffet, but with someone else choosing what I will be given. Here, let’s dish a little betrayal on your plate, some disbelief, some anger, of course, and a big heaping spoonful of …
You never think it will happen to you. You never believe that you will be the victim of infidelity… until you are. And when it happens, the earth drops from underneath your feet. There is really no other way to describe the feeling the initial feeling at least. This is the story of the painful …