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Trust but Verify

by ohbetrayed1updated on November 5, 2021October 23, 2021

Trust but verify. Unfortunately, this has become a new motto/mantra of mine. After you have been lied to so carelessly for years and years, you can’t just blindly trust again. This is especially true if your cheating partner was fond of “trickle truth” after the discovery of his/her affair.   Trickle truth is an ugly demon …

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I would never hit you! Things cheating spouses say.

by ohbetrayed1updated on September 9, 2021September 9, 2021

But yet you will beat the hell out of my body from the inside out. You will grab my heart with your cold hand and squeeze as hard as you can. You stomped all over me without a second thought. None of these things leaves marks, and thus, not evident to the human eye. How …

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What does gaslighting feel like? And a gaslighting song

by ohbetrayed1updated on April 5, 2021April 23, 2015

Gaslighting I had never heard the term “gaslighting” before learning of my husband’s affair. In the days following D-day, I scoured the internet to find…I don’t know what exactly. Any info, any similar stories, how people coped with infidelity, etc. One word that kept showing up in just about everything I read was “gaslighting”. What is …

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His mistress didn’t know he loved me

by ohbetrayed1updated on April 11, 2021January 7, 2015

My husband and I had a conversation the other day and I asked if his mistress knew he loved me. He thought about it and said, “No”. It cut like a knife to hear him say that. Why does it matter to me? For four years, while he was seeing the other woman, he never …

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The Broken Pedestal

by ohbetrayed1updated on January 2, 2022October 16, 2014

The Broken Pedestal Throughout our marriage, my husband had always placed me on the proverbial pedestal. He loved and worshipped me, and made it very well known to everyone. Heck, even without saying a word, it was apparent that he absolutely adored me, just by the way he would look at me. My mother often …

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Burning questions you might have about the Other Woman (or Man)

by ohbetrayed1updated on April 12, 2021October 14, 2014

The Other Woman Maybe “yours” isn’t the right term, but the woman or man that your husband (or wife) had their affair with. I wonder if their personalities are similar, or if only a few are slightly psycho. It is only natural to want to know about the woman who your husband chose to have …

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The Importance of Answering Questions After an Affair

by ohbetrayed1updated on April 12, 2021October 1, 2014

  Lies, lies, lies yeah. Remember that song from the 80’s? That song often goes through my head often. My head feels like a jar full of sand, with each grain representing a question.  If you are the WS, you will be answering many questions after your affair. There are millions of questions that need answering …

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